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A Note From Diane |
October 18, 2008
I've entered what I like to call, Phase 3 of Child Rearing. Phase 1 is from childbirth through 4 or 5 years old where everything is an adventure because life is grand and new, always learning and retaining. Phase 2, through about age 11 or so, is when life tones downs a little, it's not always fun and games now with the responsibility of homework and daily routine. My son had such a wonderful Phase 1 that even today, in Phase 3, he wishes to go back to a time where he didn't have to worry about assignments and being mature (the latter he's taking his time with). Now we're in Phase 3, which starts from about age 12 or 13 and, from what I hear (my son is 13), it lasts until about age 16. This phase is a detachment phase. Since my son was 1, it has pretty much been just the two of us. We're very close to say the least. But in the past year I have unexpectly had more time for myself. I've learned from asking and reading books that though he loves me very much (at times undeniably), I'm pretty much the last person he wants to do fun and exciting things with. If I compare my situation to other parents with young teenaged children, we're doing a heck of a lot together but I'm preparing myself and accepting this phase, that my little boy is no longer little. As he enters this phase that will lead him to adulthood (phase 4), I wish him much wisdom and success with friends, education and new responsibilities.
Here's to all the single parents who I credit greatly on doing a heck of a job. Remember, we ALL make mistakes. There's no such thing as a perfect parent so pat yourself on the back for being two people in one, a mother and father.
A GENIUS RESIDES IN ALL OF US. THERE'S NO 'LUCK' OR 'ACCIDENT'. EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED TO SOMETHING - NOT ONE PERSON IS EXCLUDED. MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL.
Words inspired by David R. Hawkins, MD, PHD.
Sincerely,
Diane Antonio, Publisher
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The birth of a Single Parent Magazine
A single mom since 1996, I struggled to find publications that contained editorial on being a single parent. For years I said to myself that if no one was going to do this, I would. But fear always took precedence. With no publishing background, I would take minor steps, I even bought a domain to start a website, but time and experience and fear would get in the way and eventually I would put it aside for a later date.
Fastfoward 9 years. In late 2005, I was laid off and thought to myself that it was a very good thing. I would finally research and start the magazine! But fear took over again and I decided I would stick to what I knew well and that was corporate computer training. But less than 2 years later I found myself struggling to find work. It took almost a year, and thousands of dollars in debt later, to finally get the courage to start the magazine. I had NOTHING to lose, literally. I was on the verge of losing everything because I had pretty much depleted my 'debt income' (my term for living off of my equity and credit cards) and was unable to pay bills.
In February 2008, I recruited help from networking events and a meetup group I started at meetup.com and found a production manager, one who had decades of experience in magazine layout, and a few writers. Salespeople are hard to come by so I set out to do sales myself. By the end of April I had enough sales to cover most of the printing costs so with the last credit card standing, I maxed it and sent out the finalized 16-page production to a printer and SP Magazine was born!
The week the magazine was born (it really felt like I gave birth) was a very good week because I also found work. Although I wanted to devote 100% of my time to this new child of mine, I new that I had to take care of my priorities in order to keep my son fed with a roof over his head.
Today I work full-time for a great organization that is getting me back on track with my bills. In the evenings and weekends, after I've spent quality time with my boy, I am working on the magazine and reinventing a plan for the publication to run smoothly next year. There will be one more issue in 2008 and it will be available in November. Thank you to all the volunteer writers and volunteer contributors that are helping to make this happen! And thank you to the subscribers that have faith in me and this magazine!
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Premiere Issue: SPRING 2008!
SPRING Issue Topics:Organize Your Kids, Love and Loss, Going Green, A Child's Perpective, Single Parent Adoption, Movie Review & more. Don't miss the first issue!
FALL 2008: B2S: Back to School! Back to Schedules! Also read the touching story of a single father who went blind after an accident.
In Every Issue, read about: Getting Organized, A Single Mom and/or Dad, Strengthening Our Step families, Single Parent Dating, A Child's View, Survey, Letters From Readers and more.
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